Parenting four teenagers can be hard. Especially when you are trying to make a decision (what to make for dinner, what movie to see, how gets shotgun) and you have all four of your teenagers talking to you simultaneously.
Thankfully, I have a Decision Filter Checklist that I can lean on to help me make almost any decision in life.
I’ve created two seperate checklist. One for everyone and one for people of faith.
Decision Filter Checklist
- What is the decision?
- What are the alternatives?
- What does my gut say?
- What am I feeling? (fear, greed, FOMO, bored)
- Has this decision been hot-seated at a mastermind?
- Can I afford either decision (time, money, mental health)
- How does this affect my family?
- How does this affect others around me?
- How does this fit into my perfect week?
- What are the secondary benefits?
- What makes me think I might be right about this decision?
- What makes me think I might be wrong about this decision?
- How do I think this decision will play out?
- When do I need to make this decision?
- What other decisions do I need to make to make this decision more successful?
- What if I do nothing?
- How will I measure the success of this decision?
Faith-Based Decision Filter Checklist
- What is the decision?
- What are the alternatives?
- Pray – Ask God what He wants
- What does the Bible say about this decision?
- What would Jesus do?
- What does my gut say?
- What am I feeling? (fear, greed, FOMO, bored)
- Has this decision been hot-seated at a mastermind?
- Can I afford either decision (time, money, mental health)
- How does this affect my family?
- How does this affect others around me?
- How does this fit into my perfect week?
- What are the secondary benefits?
- What makes me think I might be right about this decision?
- What makes me think I might be wrong about this decision?
- How do I think this decision will play out?
- When do I need to make this decision?
- What other decisions do I need to make to make this decision more successful?
- What if I do nothing?
- How will I measure the success of this decision?
Conclusion
Using a Decision Filter Checklist can bring peace of mind when making a decision. The checklist helps you think through questions that you may not have thought through on your own.